My piece on Cosmo.com about a big life change:

Unlike most people in my social network, when I was pregnant, I did not share the obligatory ultrasound at the end of the first trimester, or a picture of my husband and my shoes with baby ones in the middle, or make a “reveal” video. I didn’t do all of those things because until this child was safely in my arms after delivery, I was never so comfortable to think that she would definitely arrive.